How to overcome insecurity

Turn Overwhelmed into Overjoyed Pastors Corner

This episode identifies two ways that Christians can reduce stress and live joyfully
  1. Turn Overwhelmed into Overjoyed
  2. Overcoming stagnancy
  3. How to overcome insecurity
  4. The Power of a Seed
  5. What is the Holy Ghost Post Sermon

Since our church is currently doing a few weeks of Questions and Answers, I thought this would be a good time to fortify the saints by scripturally addressing areas in our daily life that our enemy often targets.
My goal in these next few “post-sermon” messages is to help you live the good life that God intends for each of us.
This week, I would like to focus on overcoming insecurity. I’ll approach this great topic by addressing three questions. What is it?


What is it?


First, it’s important to know that insecurity affects all of us in one way or another. By definition, insecurity is self-doubt, where we’re not sure of our ability to handle a certain situation or we question whether or not we measure up to the competion (real or imagined). For many women, it starts with second-guessing their appearance. For some men, it’s about whether or not they can handle a particular emotional challenge.

No matter what face insecurity takes, it’s all about doubt. Doubting ourselves and, ultimately ,doubting God.
Not everyone shows that they battle with insecurity. It depends on our nature, our gender, and a host of other factors that make us all unique.


But, no matter how strong we all appear to be, every human since Adam has had to deal with the question Am I good enough? in one way or another. Even Jesus Christ showed us this aspect of humanity when He asked His closest disciples to “watch with him” or to protect him while He prayed (Matthew 26:36). He was God incarnate! He was, and always will be, the most powerful one of all! And yet He needed someone to be with Him when He faced a really difficult challenge.


Now that ought to give us all some hope!
But how do we deal with insecurity? Before we answer that question, let’s understand where it comes from and what effects it can have.


Where does it come from?


First, let me say that insecurity is a natural issue. It is not a sin. It is a complex that normally finds it beginnings in hurtful acts/deeds that are said or done earlier on in life, most often in the early childhood to late teenage years. Sometimes it’s not always actions–insecurity can stem from comparing our own abilities to people that we’re exposed to, either in-person or through media like billboards, the internet or magazines.
Whatever the source, one thing is clear: unless it is kept under control, insecurity can hinder your spiritual growth…and even destroy your natural life.


How can it hurt us?


Insecurity is what I call a “negative faith.” Satan uses it to convince Christians that they simply do not have what it takes to achieve a certain goal in their natural or spiritual lives. By believing this, Christians lock themselves inside a mental prison of their own making. Like a negative complex, they become convinced that they’re not (fill in the blank)——-enough. More often than not, Satan will point them to someone who IS ——-(fill in the blank) enough, then show his victims all the reasons why they can never measure up. Comparison is a dangerous game—–one that we should never play.


How do we overcome it?


I want to give you three steps to constantly keep before you that characters in the Bible used in their own struggles.

  1. Get angry with the situation. Now, I know that sounds strange but, let me explain. I don’t mean get angry with people but get to the point that you refuse to let insecurity dictate your life. Like Shamgar, you have to come to the point that you say “enough is enough.” Until we Christians refuse to let the devil bully us into his emotional, spiritual, and psychological corners, we will continue to act like spiritual victims INSTEAD of spiritual victors.
  2. Think spiritually not naturally. Every Christian has the choice to look at his or her life through natural or spiritual eyes. God’s Word comes to lift our thinking about ourselves from a carnal viewpoint (which is full of limitations) to a spiritual outlook that is limitless.

    Mary shows us this in her own life. Although she was from a royal lineage, she lived in a place that was simply pathetic. Nazareth was a small, backwater town with a big crime rate. The region was so bad that, when the Roman armory was robbed in Sephoris (4 miles from Nazareth), the Romans retaliated by crucifying 2,000 Jews.

    Yet, this girl who had every reason to think of herself as inferior to women from Jerusalem or Bethel, shifted her thinking to focus on God’s unique purpose for her life. She believed she was able to carry that child. And, as she said to Elizabeth “From this time on all women will call ME blessed!”
  3. Remember your past successes: Joshua commanded Israel to make visible markers of their victories. This was critical to remind both themselves, and future generations who could share in a collective “insecurity” that they had already done great things by the power of God. You see, Israel itself had to believe that they were strong enough to conquer. They had to know that they could triumph over walled cities, trained armies, and experienced commanders who knew the terrain while they themseves did not.

    The first generation did not move past that self-doubt. It spilled over into doubting God and kept them from actually seeing His Word of promise come to pass in their own lives.

    I’d like to drop a warning right here. Do not let Satan make you question your ability to accomplish God’s will for your life.

    We are all gifted in different ways. You may not have the faith of a certain brother or sister. But don’t let that stop you from using whatever faith God has given you.
  4. You may feel someone else has greater talents or question your usefulness in light of someone else. But remember that, the God who used you once, will continue to use you in whatever way He desires, if you’ll stop doubting yourself …. and doubting Him.

    These three approaches all point to one thing— replacing insecurity or “negative faith” with “positive faith”. Our mindset about ourselves will affect our mindset about God’s Word.
    You cannot believe that God can do anything in and through your life unless you’re first willing to belive that you can do anything through the power of God.

    In the end, Jesus broke through the insecurity caused by His humanity. He faced it down alone…and won that night in Gethsemane. And, because He did, nothing would ever be the same again.

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